If you have a friend/family member that is consistently causing you more stress than happiness, then it is not worth having them in your space. That person that is always embroiled in drama and always playing with fire is messing with your mental health.
Their destructive behavior is stressful and as much as you want to continue to try, you have to focus on your own life. You can’t save everybody. Just pray and go on about your business.
We all should recognize and accept that people will make mistakes, but it is tough to support someone when they are way out of control and not even attempting to help themselves.
Love them from afar and be there for them when they are ready…if ever.